Hurt

"In the name of God, most Gracious, most Compassionate"

It's the second day of Eid and things are not looking good at home. Ya Allah, please forgive me for saying this but my dad is a constant complainer and never helps out around the house. It gets to a point where even I am so frustrated with him that I wish I could just raise my voice.

He's been complaining that no one wants to come visit us for Eid... but when he found out we were having guests, he gave an excuse to go out so he wouldn't have to entertain them. Astaghfiruallah... He bitches [yes he does] about every single relative of my mom's side who annoys him or whom he's jealous of etc. One of my uncles was talking about his grandson who made it to one of the top junior colleges in Singapore and my dad bitched later in the car about how arrogant my uncle was. And I was like.... get a grip please! He was just proud of his grandson! How many people can make it to that school? 

He complains about the food, he complains about housework when asked to do... He complains about every little thing and it's making me very annoyed. He keeps quarreling with my mother and knowing how tired my mother is from working so hard, it makes me very angry and hurt.

I wish I could tell him that our Prophet Muhammad s.a.w helps out with the housework, never complains about his food and above all never bitches about other people even when they were unkind to him. But it is not my place to tell my father that or is it?
It makes me scared to get married sometimes when this happens. =(